Soulmates

We live in a hyper-romantic society. At every turn there’s another person, advertisement, song, movie or television show telling you that you have to do something or buy something and if you can only make yourself attractive and valuable enough then you will be loved. This is absurd. If soulmates are two parts of the same thing, returning to one another is inevitable.

Finding Happiness In Love

When I talk to people who are really truly happy in their relationship, they often say one thing over and over and it has never ceased to blow my mind how often I hear it. It is this, “He/She was not my usual type”. It can be hard for people who are on the search to hear this. They wonder if that means they have to “settle” for less or if there won’t be a physical attraction. Quite the contrary in real life.  your “type” is most often the same sort of problematic person you date over and over again in different forms wondering where your real soulmate is. People try hard to make themselves attractive to the masses and then get lost. Love isn’t about achieving a manifestation of your ego-ideal. Accept yourself and you can accept your soulmate. It really is that simple. Finding that person is about being totally honest with yourself. Your soulmate is on YOUR path. Your most natural one. The more you are you, the easier it will be to connect.